Steps to take on this day:
In Empathy let go of a grudge.
The wise Jedi know themselves, let go of a bad habit and create a plan for self-betterment.
Honor a Jedi or other Being that has passed into the Force.

Trust your training, the Force, and your fellows. Focus on each pillar and let the guidance come naturally. Its often said that the veil between worlds is thinnest this day. Listen closely for the whisper of the Force as you know it to guide you. Clear your mind with whatever centering skill works most effectively. Finally, make sure you have a self-care plan in place as this can be intense. 

We have honored the Pillars of the conclave and now apply these inward. Care for yourself Empathy. Meditate ( Wisdom ), take a warm bath, eat a good meal and connect with your fellows ( The Living Force ). This night is solemn, yes but that does not mean we cannot celebrate together.